Top Three Reasons Women Should Know Self Defense

Blog By M. Mitera

It’s wishful thinking to imagine a world where people don’t have to constantly look over their shoulders to make sure no one is following them. Unfortunately, it is mostly women who deal with the fear of going out in to the world alone. In 2014, the Criminal Victimization Board found that US residents over the age of 12 have experienced 5.4 million violent victimizations. This includes but isn’t limited to rape or sexual assault, simple assault, and aggravated assault. Women need to be more educated in how to protect themselves from an assailant and here are the top three reasons why.

In learning self defense, a woman will be able to not only protect herself but her family if necessary. Although men are supposedly the stronger sex, martial arts such as Bujustu teach those involved to fend of an attacker and then escape, rather than staying to fight. The goal is not to continue the altercation but to get away and find help as soon as possible. Another goal is to potentially disarm an attacker that is carrying a weapon. Most martial arts programs show students how to obtain a weapon from an attacker and use it to their advantage or at least to escape. While learning self defense doesn’t 100% assure your safety, this skill will drastically reduce the chances of you getting hurt or injured if you are attacked.

When learning self-defense, you are also taught discipline. This trait will transfer over to other parts of your life. You will begin to realize that you are a better parent, a better friend, a better worker, etc with this new found calmness. Self-defense has a lot to do with controlling breathing, staying relaxed, and to respond to situations instead of reacting to them. In the year 2018, we are surrounded by instant gratification. Self-defense doesn’t allow for this instant feeling of importance. It teaches patience and diligence, something that isn’t really taught in regular, every day life anymore. Self-defense tactics will not only help to keep you safe but will drastically improve your outlook on life, as you will constantly be working on a process that has no end.

If you’re not convinced to give some self-defense classes just yet, you should also know that learning self-defense can boost confidence. It teaches you that your life matters enough to fight for and so do the lives of your friends and families. Self-defense doesn’t care what gender you are, what your age is, or your physical strength. It will push you to be better than you ever thought you could be and this air of confidence might deter attackers in the first place. But at least you’ll know that you have the ability to defend yourself.

At MALS, we have a wide selection of self defense items available. We take our client’s safety very seriously and since we work with many people who work late in to the night, we want to make sure everyone is okay. If you have any questions about self-defense or want to look at our stock of self-defense items, just swing by the shop and let one of our associates show you! We are open seven days a week, Monday through Friday 10am-10pm, Saturday 10am to 9pm, and Sunday from 12am to 6pm!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

Valentine’s Day At MALS

Blog By M. Mitera

With Valentine’s Day about a month away, it’s a good time to start thinking about what you’re going to get that special someone. Sure, jewelry is great for the ladies and tools are great for the men. But we all know that it’s the “secret presents” that are the most loved on this holiday. This year, you can head on in to MALS and do all of your Valentine’s shopping in one stop. From lingerie to edible crayons, we have it all!

The best item that we have in stock this year is by far the WeVibe vibrator. This little piece of technology is the perfect gift for both you and your partner. You can read a little more about it in our recent blog HERE. Worth every penny, the WeVibe is an amazing way to connect on a whole new level. Using this toy is sure to spice things up and add something extra to your relationship! There are two different WeVibe’s in the store right now; the WeVibe Sync and the WeVibe Jive. If you have any more questions about this amazing couples vibrator, stop in and let one of our employees break it down for you!

In addition to the WeVibe, we have gift sets that are perfect for that freaky someone in your life! One of the most inclusive sets is the Waterproof Wet & Wild Pleasure Collection. This set features quite a few different items that can make bath time (or any time, really) even better! This awesome set comes with a few different samples of lube in addition to a flat top vibrator, two vibrator jelly sleeves, cock rings, a cock sleeve, and a mini massager with four tips! That special lady in your life is going to love this gift set! Like stated above, we’re definitely your one stop shop.

Looking for something really interesting? We currently carry the International Couples Sex Machine! This incredible device is easy to transport, couple friendly, and super simple to clean! Whether you want to use it with a partner or by yourself, the International Couples Sex Machine was designed for pleasure almost anywhere (except in the water, it is not water friendly). With heavy grip suction cups, you can attach it to the floor or wall. But since it’s so lightweight, you can hold it as well! The machine comes with a wireless remote and easy to use controls so no worries if you’re not super tech savvy. There’s only one in stock so if you’re interested, get it now before it’s gone!

MALS carries a whole lot of additional products, including (but not limited to) body paint, wireless bullets, crops and whips of all kinds, Japanese silk rope, and so much more! When you start to do your Valentine’s Day shopping, be sure to browse our website or come by the store. On February 14th, all of the red and pink items in the store will be 15% off! Just in case you forget to get that special someone a gift, we will be open from 10am to 10pm! We don’t suggest waiting until the last minute though so hurry in!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

The WeVibe Vibrator

Blog By M. Mitera

Not all adult toys are created equally. Don’t get me wrong, there are cheap toys that are great and expensive toys that are not. At MALS, we carry a wider variety of fairly priced adult toys, including some of the most sought after toys on the market. We’ve recently upped our selection of higher end toys in the store. In this particular blog, we wanted to bring you some information on our new favorite toy, the We Vibe Vibrator!

The We Vibe is one of the most popular and sought after vibrators available right now. This great product can be used for just you or with a partner, making it extremely fun and versatile. Made for use with couples, this vibrator adds a fun new aspect to sex that many haven’t experienced before. Made of super soft silicone, the We Vibe is the perfect accent for a night in with that special someone.

Both ends of the We Vibe vibrate, making it one of the most sensational vibrators around. One end is insert-able, while the other rests gently on the clitoris. The insert-able end is small enough that your partner can enter as well and the vibration will have an effect on both of you! The best news? This vibrator is so well put together that it won’t move while changing positions so don’t be afraid to get a little crazy!

We Vibe has a wide range of products, including other vibrators and anal toys as well. With outstanding reviews from customers, this couple’s massager could be the toy that you’ve been looking for. It’s rechargeable (and has a function that will actually tell you when the battery is running low!), waterproof, and discreet. With pages upon pages of positive feedback, we couldn’t resist becoming an official We Vibe retailer!

If you need more convincing as to why the We Vibe is probably your next important sex toy purchase, you can check out customer reviews here! Or if you’d like, you can swing by the shop and ask one of our knowledgeable employees about the We Vibe and all of the benefits that it has for both single use and use with partners! We’re open seven days a week, come visit us and snag one of the best vibrators available today!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

Stocking Stuffers At MALS

Blog By M. Mitera

Now that Thanksgiving has passed, Christmas will be upon us before we even know it. Don’t get caught off guard this year and be stuck without stocking stuffers! At MALs, we have plenty of awesome items that will make great additions to stockings or perhaps just a little something extra under the tree! Whatever the case may be, we compiled a list of ten items that are perfect for stockings this year for that special someone! We of course have hundreds of more items in our store so if you don’t see something you like here, we definitely suggest stopping by to stock up on adult holiday gifts!

  1. Calexotics Lover’s Kit $16
    This cute kit comes with a selection of toys that you’re both sure to enjoy! In the kit, you get a lifelike pleasure sleeve along with a classic Calexotics tapered vibrator. There is also two super-stretchy erection rings and a set of graduating anal beads that are just perfect for beginners! While being lower in price, this kit would make the perfect last minute addition to your Christmas shopping!
  2. Hot & Spicy Part Dice $12
    Whether you wait to unwrap these on Christmas morning or you break them out Christmas Eve after the family is gone, this fun little game is sure to be a hit with your partner. It’s a classic couples game that’s sure to give you a little bit of added fun on Christmas Eve… Or Day… Or whenever!
  3. Sex Stickies $8
    Each sticky has a different sexy scenario on it and you can leave them in cute places so that your partner can select their choice and return it to you. Much like the dice, these cute little guys are a classic but are a fun way to spice things up!
  4. Clone-A-Willy $40 (Deep Skin Tone) & $46 (Glow-In-The-Dark-Blue)
    This is quite a bonding experience! Making a clone of your loved one’s penis is pretty funny and definitely recommended. Keep in mind, here at MALs, we can also custom order things for you! This means that if you’d like, we can also order you the special Milk Chocolate Edition Clone-A-Willy as well… But that one doesn’t vibrate!
  5. Sex Therapy Kit For Lover $24
    If you’re looking for something to help you out with some romance, this kit has everything you need! From rose petals to hot wax candles, this selection will help you set the mood. Once you’ve achieved a satisfactory environment, the kit also offers warming massage lotion, body paint that you can eat, and a book full of couples coupons that is the perfect sexy reward system for your partner! And for when things really get hot, the kit has a blindfold and furry handcuffs as well as a jelly cock-enhancing ring and mini clitoral massager that can be used on him or her!
  6. Hemp Seed 3-In-1 Massage Candle $12
    This candle is a great way to warm things up on a snowy night. It’s made with natural ingredients and won’t upset sensitive skin. Simply light up the candle and place it somewhere safe so that the oil can melt. Once you’ve gotten enough melted oil, blow the candle out and slowly drizzle the oil on the body. Massage in to the skin for a smooth, indulgent holiday scent that will help to soothe away the stresses of holiday shopping.
  7. Body Icing Gift Set $18
    Apply with a clean brush or your finger and become a sexy artist with your partner. Paint each other with these delicious toppings in three great tastes; Creamy Vanilla, Choco-Love, and Sensual Strawberry. Don’t like what you painted? Just lick it off and start from scratch!
  8. Edible Massage Oil in Cherry $16
    This oil is perfect for those who have sensitive skin and enjoy their products to be extremely natural and cruelty free. Containing Vitamin E, rosemary, and hemp seed, this oil will make an amazing addition to your sexy stash. Plus, the bottle is the perfect size to fit in a stocking!
  9. Lingerie $5-$60+
    Our selection of lingerie is staggering and will absolutely blow you away! We have so much to choose from that you’ll spend hours digging through the racks, trying to decide which piece your loved one will like best. And we have pieces for both men and women! Browse through the website or come on down to see what we’ve got!
  10. Sex Tarts Lube $10
    Tasty and ultra-slick? This lube is perfect! It spreads smoothly and comes off cleanly, leaving no super sticky mess to clean up afterwards! Since the Sex Tarts line in water based, it is safe for use with all toys and won’t stain fabrics so you can get as crazy with it as you want! Available in Apple Fizz, Grape Soda, and Cherry Pop.

 

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

 

 

Water Filtration Vs. Oil Rig

Blog By M. Mitera

With all of these constant advancements in glass technology, some people are left scratching their heads wondering what all of this fancy silicate does. Well thankfully, that’s what we’re here for! A question we hear a lot of is “What’s the difference between a water filtration and an oil rig?” The short answer to that question is nothing! The two pieces can be interchangeable providing that you have the right accessories to go with them. However, there is a long answer and if you want to know it, read on!

Water filtration is traditionally used for dry tobacco. They feature a slide where the herbal matter is placed and then lit on fire with a regular lighter. These pieces have been around for a long time and are recognized by most people. The joint for the down stem is usually also a female on water filtration. Oil rigs, on the other hand, usually feature a male joint and utilize something called a nail, usually made from titanium, quartz, or ceramic. This nail must be heated with a high powered butane torch as compared to a regular lighter, although there are electronic nails available if this part is a bit much for you (electric nails also provide the perfect temperature every time). You then place your concentrates on the nail after it has cooled off slightly. This process vaporizes the concentrate, providing a more flavorful and less harsh experience.

When it comes to water filtration pieces, size is totally up to you. In fact, with these guys, the bigger the better. More percolators mean that the smoke gets cooled more before reaching your lungs, providing a smoother hit of your tobacco. The multiple percs also filter out more toxins in the smoke, leaving less of the bad stuff in your lungs. With oil rigs, smaller is actually better. Since the process is vaporizing, the smoke cannot travel long distances and hold it’s flavor and potency. When choosing an oil rig, the smaller, the better.

Of course, you can absolutely use the same piece for both. Again, as long as you have the appropriate attachments, you can use your glass for either simple water filtration or for an oil rig. It is highly recommended that if you are switching back and forth between the functions that you thoroughly clean the glass between each use. Each process is different and can leave different residues on your glass, leaving a severely sticky mess if you don’t take care of it quickly!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

BDSM 101: Safe, Sane, and Consensual

I’m sure you have heard about the best seller “BDSM” book, Fifty Shades of Grey by now. It was such a hit that Hollywood made a movie version of the book which was released in February of 2015 and Fifty Shades Darker, the second book to the trilogy in February of 2017. Unfortunately as popular as it is, the book is in no way an accurate representation of the BDSM community or safe BDSM practices. Here is what real BDSM looks like:

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission, and Masochism. At its core, it’s all about finding pleasure in pain and playing with different social roles in a sexual setting. What makes BDSM different from abuse is that it is CONSENSUAL. There are three “pillars” if you will, that make up BDSM:

  • Safe- BDSM is always safe and participants plan at length to make sure everyone involved is physically, emotionally and sexually safe, by using STI protection and good communication.
  • Sane- There must be thorough and clear communication before, during, and after “play”. All parties must be able to consent, not under the influence of any drugs or alcohol when consent is given.
  • Consensual- Everyone involved in a scene must discuss their boundaries, limitations and their plan for play. Create a safe word so that play can be stopped if someone becomes uncomfortable. Remember without consent, BDSM is ABUSE!

After care is also an important part of BDSM. Both dominants and submissives need time to talk to each other and make sure everyone is ok. Take your time to make sure everyone is comfortable with what happened during play and even follow up a few days after. Here is a great video that explains the essentials of BDSM- Laci Green BDSM 101.

Now for all you kinksters that are either well acquainted with BDSM or are just starting to explore this counter-culture, Manchester Adult Life Styles is prepared to meet all of your BDSM supply needs. Come stop by our shop or visit our website to see our vast collection of different “tools of the trade” and feel free to talk to one of our friendly and knowledgeable staff members for advice and suggestions on our products.

 

-Written By Freelance Writer and Artist, Dani Peasley. She can be reached through email at myrandomcat@gmail.com