Your First Sex Toy

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Buying a sex toy for the first time can be a harrowing experience. You’ve never done this before an maybe you’ve never even been in adult shop. From what you know, they might be a little scary, even seedy. Online shopping is an option but a lot of people like to see what they’re buying before they buy it, especially when it comes to sex toys. Continue reading

Explore This Valentine’s Day At MALS

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Whether you’re single or in a relationship, Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. It can be a stressful holiday for some but it doesn’t have to be! Whether you have someone to spoil or you’re spoiling yourself, Manchester Adult Lifestyles can help you make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. It’s important to treat yourself (or your partner) right! We have toys for all sorts of people here and you’re sure to find something that you’ll enjoy using! While many people still think Valentine’s Day comes with some sort of expectation of what you should be doing, we disagree and think that this day should be reserved for not just flowers and roses but for vibrators and butt plugs too!

Sexual kinks are still very much hidden behind closed doors these days. Although many people are coming forward, unashamed of their desires, there are still just as many that look down at the floor when asked what their favorite playtime activity is. It shouldn’t be this way. We should be able to openly discuss and talk about our sexual endeavors, without the worry of being judged. So if you’re worried about being judged for what you like, come to MALS where we can help you not only be comfortable with what you like but we can assist you in finding a toy that you love! Our selection of toys, lubricants, lingerie, and so much more is bound to produce something you (and your partner if you’re having one join you) absolutely love.

If you are spending this year without a partner, don’t fret. We have so many toys that are made for the single person, you honestly won’t be able to pick one without help from our staff. From vibrators to an actual Real Doll, we have at least one item that you’ll end up taking home. There’s no reason that you shouldn’t get some love on Valentine’s Day and self love in honestly the best kind of love you can get. As the saying goes, you can’t receive love until you give it to yourself! If you’re interested in exploring this idea, definitely stop by our store so we can introduce you to some amazing stuff.

In a relationship? No matter what kind of dynamic you have going on, we have toys for couples, triples, whatever you need! Not only do we have toys and sexy outfits, we have a decent selection of lover’s kits, sexual board games, and edible undies. Did we mention that our Clone-A-Willy line is an absolutely amazing couple’s activity? And if you haven’t gotten in to shibari yet, you should probably look it up because that’s a great time as well! No matter what you’re in to, we can find something to make your day rock!

People have all different sorts of likes and dislikes. Our staff is extremely professional and ready to help answer any questions you may have about the products we sell. There’s no need to be embarrassed, we have heard it all. We aren’t just retail employees here. We’re people who genuinely care about the health and well-being of our customers. So if you’re looking for something fun this February (or just in general), come see us. We would love to help you out!

The MotorBunny Mountable Sex Toy

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Sex toys have come a long way in the last few years. There are all sorts of advancements to make alone time (and time with your partner) more enjoyable. With so many different products coming out, how are you even supposed to decide which one to get?! Especially with some of these hefty price tags, it can be beneficial to know what you’re getting before you buy it. Sex machines and larger toys in particular should be researched thoroughly before you pick them up, just to make sure it’s exactly the toy that you’re looking for!

The MotorBunny sex machine is a more affordable version of the Sybian sex machine. It. Is. Intense. Most people who have used the MotorBunny swear by the power of it’s orgasms. They claim that this is something that you need to experience in your life. These orgasms are some of the most amazing that users have ever experienced. If you are in the market for a sex machine, you should absolutely look in to the MotorBunny. Not only is it epic but the attachments appeal to everyone, whether you prefer external or internal stimulation.

This machine has so many attachments, it might make your head spin. The unit comes with four attachments out of the box made of TPE. If you aren’t familiar with TPE, please note that it is porous and cannot be completely sterilized. Keep this in mind if you plan on sharing these toys. However, you can purchase additional attachments that are made of silicone that can be cleaned and sterilized for sharing purposes! The machine also boasts tools for the BDSM lovers as well! There are loops at the ends of the MotorBunny which makes forced orgasms and other bondage situations much more interesting.

With simple and easy to operate controls, the MotorBunny offers both a Twirl feature as well as a Buzz feature. The twirl moves the toy around in a circle for internal stimulation while the buzz hits the outer areas. The knobs are very responsive, meaning you don’t have to mess with things too much to get it to work the way you want it to. Be warned, however, the higher vibrations might be a bit too much for a beginner. Work your way up to the higher settings or risk ending up with a case of Jell-O legs.

The main downside of the MotorBunny (and the Sybian has the same problem) is that it’s noisy. What can you really expect from a bench sized sex toy? Just be aware of this if you’re planning to order this and you share your living space with someone who isn’t your partner. These toys are very loud and if you’re trying to keep your sexcapades quiet, we definitely recommend rethinking this purchase. But! If you live alone or with your partner or simply just don’t care who knows what you’re doing behind closed doors, the MotorBunny is a well loved, intense sex machine that’s sure to bring you the pleasure you’re looking for!

Virtual Reality Sex

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Technology has changed the way that we interact in our personal relationships. Being able to see a loved one on a screen from hundreds of miles away has made long distance much more bearable. But humans always seem to want to take it to the next level. And now they have with virtual reality sex and porn. With virtual reality becoming more refined and fine tuned as the days go on, the benefits of having a product such as this are extensive. Continue reading

A Brief Guide To Urethral Sounding

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Chances are, if you’re reading this blog, you’re not very vanilla. And if you are, welcome to a whole new world of sexual deviance that you didn’t even know existed! This article will cover some of the basics of sounding, a practice that started as a medical procedure.The point of the procedure was to allow doctors to swab the inside of the urethra to test for abnormalities. But, as usual, the deviant side of humans took this and ran with it, turning it in to a sexual practice. Continue reading

How To Clean Toys; A Brief Guide

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Cleaning your toys is incredibly important to prevent the build up of bacteria and other gross stuff. It’s also just a good idea to take care of the toys that take such good care of you! Continue reading

MALS On FetLife

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Even though it’s the year 2018, some things are still a little too… adult for some platforms of social media. It’s understandable. Some people are more vanilla than others and we have to respect that. But just because some people don’t want to see what we sell doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t be able to promote it! Continue reading

Intro To Shibari

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In the year 2018, people aren’t as vanilla as they used to be. With the help of the internet, kinks have made themselves very well known over the years. These days, people aren’t as ashamed to broadcast their preferences as they were before. One of the more commonly found kinks among sexually active individuals is the practice of Japanese rope bondage. This practice is extremely popular in the BDSM communities and is a very connecting experience, bringing the model and the person tying very close together.

Japanese rope bondage is known as “kinbaku” or “shibari”. In the west, the term “shibari” is much more common, although it doesn’t exactly mean the same thing as “kinbaku”. Kinbaku (“tight binding”) carries a traditional Japanese meaning. While on one hand, shibari refers to a generalization of tying, kinbaku refers to tying and binding in a sexual sense. Kinbaku is bondage art, where shibari is technically just tying. Some experts in the BDSM community consider kinbaku to be tying sessions with a strong emotional connection between the rigger and model.

Even though the term “shibari” doesn’t carry the deep meaning with it, the word is becoming more and more popular across the world. Even in Japan, the word shibari is being used more and more to describe the experience of Japanese rope play. However, the word is still considered by some to be a wrong Western Japanism and doesn’t convey the sexual context of kinbaku.

This particular style of bondage pays special attention to the way the rope looks on the model, as well as the position assumed during the tying. Sometimes, uncomfortable positions are tied on purpose to provide an aesthetic look for the person doing the tying. Traditional Japanese bondage uses specific forms and aesthetic rules to spotlight the model’s position. The most important ties in the traditional Japanese bondage play are the Ushiro Takatekote, which is an arm box tie of sorts as well as the Ebi (“shrimp”), which was originally designed as a torture tie.

This kind of play is on the rise and people are becoming more and more apt to trying it. The bond between a model and the person rigging the rope can be so extreme. It is highly recommended that you give this act a try with your partner or even by yourself (there are some wonderful ties that you can do alone that don’t require a partner’s help! These are great for practice!). Be on the lookout for more rope play blogs as we delve deeper in to this amazing act! Thanks for reading!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.

At Home Drug Tests

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As a parent with kids, it can be stressful trying to figure out what they’re doing when you’re not around. There are more and more dangers available to kids these days. Especially in this area, with the opiate problem, parents need to be as protective as ever. Continue reading

The Appeal Of BDSM

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With many things being overdone, sex these days has begun to change. People are more apt to explore, constantly looking for new ways to enjoy themselves. The media has helped this trend of evolving sex by heavily promoting BSDM (standing for Bondage, Domination, Submission, and Masochism). This practice may seem alien and violent to some, definitely not something many would consider “normal”. But those who are involved with BDSM are able to find a new sense of freedom, independence, and confidence. Historically, those who were interested in BDSM were considered to have a medical illness. Because of the initial impression of pain, people had a negative response. Even though there were those who weren’t feeling the whips and chains idea of sex, curiosity and the primal instincts of humans took over.

We’ve already told you what BDSM stands for. But let’s break it down a little more so you can kind of understand the appeal a little bit more. The B stands for bondage, which involves one partner tying up the other with something like rope, chains, or other restraints. D stands for domination. This means one partner exaggerates the power they have over the other. Domination has a lot to do with the relationship between a slave and a master. S is for submission and sadism. While dominants enjoy having power over others, subs enjoy feeling powerless. In this role, the sub is usually receiving punishments by the dom. Finally, the M is for masochism. This is closely related to sadism except this is the submissive’s enjoyment of the pain and humiliation during play. It’s these aspects that make BDSM so appealing… The shift of power in roles can be a very pleasurable experience.

Practicing BDSM provides a new sense of meaning and independence. It allows people to take on a different persona than the one that they live every day. Those who get turned on by fantasy play will also love trying out BDSM, as it provides a stage to an ever changing performance. Many couples even reported that their feelings of trust and intimacy were deeper after practicing BDSM. By having to put your safety in the hands of another, the relationship grows much stronger.

BDSM allows people to do things that they wouldn’t normally be able to do in a safe environment. The aspect of role playing is extremely appealing to some. Being able to take on a different persona can be a huge turn on for some. It’s important to be open minded if your partner decides to bring this up to you as something that they’re in to. While it may seem a bit intense at first, the experience is one that is definitely worth having. So don’t knock it until you try it! For those interested in getting in to the BDSM scene, Manchester Adult Lifestyles has a ton of BDSM related toys so head on in to the shop and check it out!

About the Author: M has been a professional blogger for six years and has contributed to various websites. When she is not writing, she is a professional body piercing apprentice. M can be reached at m@spider-bite.com and you can find her piercing only blog HERE.